How can we experience divine union in its fullest?
The physical world is an illusion. A construct or hologram, a 'dream' that we make real with our minds. We choose the circumstance of our lives, our parents, our friends and our partners before we incarnate here. We do this to reveal something - the truth about ourselves. Loving sexual union with another is one of the most powerful ways to experience that truth...

We each have a unique, separate experience of the One Life - the absolute - which offers us a complete understanding of our true nature. However by identifying too closely with the separation - the illusion - we miss the experience of divine union which is possible in every moment.

To hold both the experience of the separation and oneness simultaneously is in my opinion our destiny as human beings. To be at one with this duality in every moment is what some refer to as enlightenment.

As the One Life we observe ourselves through the material world. The more we identify with the material world - the separation - the more we limit the experience of being the One. Therefore the divine beauty is best experienced the moment before materialisation happens - before the 'dream' is made 'real'.

That is why tantra is so powerful. The full energy of sexual union is harnessed inside by mastering our desires and emotions.
This is achieved by realising that the truth is to be found within and that everything outside is merely a 'mirror'.

In this way, the energy continues to build which greatly enhances our spiritual unfolding. To read more about the purpose and techniques of tantra, see the article below By Dinu Roman...

Tantra: Thirst for Divine Union by Dinu Roman

In tantra yoga, the libido, when manifested as sexual drive, is not at all considered to be only sensuality but, at the innermost levels, as the soul's ardent yearning for spiritual perfection. Here the erotic impulse appears as the psyche's abyssal thirst to reach perfection through unity of complementary polar opposites. In this way, re-born as a genuine Androgyne of the Secret tradition -- magical child of shiva and shakti -- the Individual spirit will have access to the highest levels of consciousness...

The magnetic woman, the electric Man tantra considers that, energetically speaking, woman is magnetic, passive, lunar, receptive and charged with power of negative polarity (YIN). In multiple ways, she attracts, absorbs and stores subtle energy which remains latent. When connected in a proper way with the male electric, dynamic and positively charged subtle energy (yang), the female energy undertakes a complex alchemical reaction and thus the couple generates an energetic power station. This is very easy to verify. Certain tantric techniques enable the practitioner to verify that the bioenergetic differences of polarity between man and woman are energized to the highest extent through the love play and that a mutual exchange between these two forms of energy (YIN/female, yang/male) takes place during sexual intercourse in which the two partners harmonize themselves on multiple levels. Performed in the tantric way (successive orgasms without ejaculation) these unions can intensify and develop the latent extra-sensorial capacities and the mental power of both partners beyond any expectations.

The couple who practice tantric sexual union use the subtle energies of the man's body and the complementary energies of the woman's body for attaining the state of harmony with the absolute.

Retention -- the untold secret

It is important to emphasize that tantra yoga substantiates its techniques of spiritual development on the perfect yet efortless control of the sexual energy (semen retention). Traditional texts say semen contain consciousness as the ova contains primordial creative energy. Here the point is to return to the practitioner the enormous amount of raw sexual energy contained in semen and in the correspondent female orgasmic emanations in such a way that this subtle energy may be sublimated and its efficiency used for higher purposes, i.e. psycho-mental and spiritual.

being in perfect physical, emotional and mental health is a must for approaching any of the sexual practices of tantrism. Modern civilization leaves integrity, so we need to open up and to re-learn to experience as intensely as possible our senses. While it is true that cultivating the sensory awareness, here being included different techniques of amplifying the sexual pleasure and of opening up to experience deep sexual orgasm, can be a useful preparation for tantra, these incipient techniques are not tantra yet if they are not accompanied by a total, yet effortless, control.

The science of the ancient sages (siddhas) teaches that the sexual reproductive power (the Life Force) can be transmuted into superior forms of energy called ojas and tejas. The practitioner causes his seed to rise up to his crown center (sahasrara), where it becomes transformed into soma, the nectar of immortality. Through the tantric procedures, the semen is took over by the lymphatic system. The lymphatic system consists of the fluid (lymph) that bathes the tissues, being similar in composition with plasma. The lymph contains white cells involved in the immunity system of the body. These white cells produce antibodies, special substances which attack the foreign organisms (microbes, etc.) and render them harmless. Through the lymphatic system, the semen reaches the brain (CORPUS CALLOSUM) where it is processed into extremely subtle energies (ojas and tejas) used by the higher mind. As the physical brain needs oxygen and proteins to function properly, the higher mind (superconsciousness) needs big quantities of ojas and tejas energy. The tejas energy is that energy which produces the halo around the saints' head. The ojas energy is that energy which confers an extraordinary vigor, power and virility.

The transmuting of the semen's energy into ojas and tejas does not take place only in men. women who practice tantra yoga realize the transmutation of that energy which produces the ova and the menstrual cycle. These energies are transformed into ojas and tejas exactly as in the men's case. As a result, the menstrual cycle becomes scarce or even disappears completely, and the ovulation process slows down or even stops. Nevertheless, when the conception of a baby is desired, the energies are permitted to accumulate at the pelvic area, the ovulation returns to normal and the menstrual cycle appears again.

The magical spring

In tantra yoga, one uses sexuality for completely transcending it. Even at the level of ordinary sexual experiences, the couple sometimes has the strange and powerful feeling that sexual intercourse releases a tremendous energy inside the human psyche. Frequently superior and nostalgic truths can be inferred in this state. Pedro McGregor in his famous PSYCHOSEXUAL synthesis confirms the tantric teachings concerning sexuality. Our burning sexual or emotional beatitudes are nothing other than a degenerated mysterious enthusiasm. Our highest and noblest spiritual yearnings, the whole of our transcendental and sublime potential, would be somehow imprisoned in matter, i.e. in sexuality. This enthusiasm is materialized, therefore limited, absorbed and inert. It is logical to consider that a conscious change in our sexual behavior and in our most intimate attitudes could act as a magical spring, releasing truly super-human energies in the same way that a controlled mutation in the intimate structure of the atom can release a tremendous amount of nuclear energy.

The energy of intense emotions

Therefore, another important characteristic of the tantric Way is that spiritual growth is realized through extreme intensity of energy (shaktipata) spontaneously born during the frantic living of intense emotions, including both sexual and non-sexual emotions. The supreme existence reveals itself instantaneously during the tumult of violent emotions such as extreme terror, vivid curiosity, deep compassion, total anger, profound pleasure.

"In order to penetrate into the supreme reality, everything that is at hand is to be considered as a modality; because, as the trika system puts it, the human being must not submit to any restrictions (in order to attain the supreme)".

A tantric text by abhinavagupta

When controlled and directed by a lucid mind, this paramount intensity of the extreme emotions creates the instantaneous welding of all levels of the human being (physical-sexual, emotional and mental-spiritual) which are normally disconnected and therefore acting independently. Thus, the practitioner becomes aware of the inner abyssal power that lies within himself and starts to bring it to the surface. The transcendence of the inferior levels of consciousness is realized through an exceptionally frantic living of every moment of everyday life. In this way, the duality disappears into the flashing unity of the supreme consciousness, without change (nirvikalpa).

Courtesy to natha (Nordic centre of spiritual development) in Danmark

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