The boundary situation continues to unfold.... I am granting Gary an easement across my land and the hill will be untouched. Just have to file the paperwork with the register of deeds at the courthouse.

My only brother (4 years younger) has colon cancer. He and I have had a rocky past to say the least. I was the one who held our dysfunctional family unit together as a teenager and most of the years since. My brother has worked very little in his 42 years on earth. Mostly he got support from whoever he could including my parents to this day. 11 years ago he met a woman who gets a disability check monthly for being chronically depressed. They got married and had 7 kids. "The government gives you money if you have kids" is what he says. He has lived with my elderly parents off and on over his whole life. Mom died 7 years ago and dad is 86. They live in a small town 14 miles from me. My brother scraps cars and other things and has the yard full of junk most of the time. The police have issued multiple citations to my dad and brother for the violation of city ordinances. My dad constantly complains about all the junk but will only let me clean up when John moves out for a brief time. 3 times Tammy and I have cleaned the yard up. This has created a lot of problems with John and I. It pisses me off to no end to see him use people because he is too lazy to work and buy what he needs to care for his family. I have built up a huge judgment of him. About 3 years ago I realized that my parents taught him this way of living by their actions. There was always a do as i say not as i do understanding in the house growing up. I struggled with discerning the way to live all of my life. I had to accept that he is doing the best he can with the way he was brought up and his ability to grow or not. Now he is down to 135 pounds at 6'3 and I sense his time is very short. I have done a couple of energy sessions with him. I just witness his energy and allow his body to express what it wants to. No intention or manipulation on my part just holding space. What I felt scares me The only other time i felt that was with an animal at the farm and it passed on the next day. I have not told him what i felt. I am fumbling in the dark to find the right action. Thanks for listening....