question for anyone , so we are making a timeline jump to ascend to 5D.  my question is do I have to have made all my decisions before hand or just have the intent on making them?  for example, I know I need to start my life all over but leaving my family is something I am struggling with due to the fact that we only have a few weeks left until the event.  So can I have the Intent in my head? do I have to tell them before? or do I actually  have to go and leave this life?