Wow! That video is so humbling, to see her quietly accepting of a reality is truly inspiring. Your daughters are blessed to have you humbly moving through this with such strength and grace. In my experience, it took years before acceptance happened by my ex-partner whom I had spent 22 years with. It's truly excruciatingly painful yet once the aftermath washed the debris away, a space grew for other emotions or knowings to gently float through our beingness like gratitude. I second Trinity's sentiment through your beautiful words Kim.
Namaste
Erica