Hi Janhavi,

I feel for you - lots of people have challenging karmic situations around birthing. In my view, a lot of it is to do with the way humanity came into being - how the genetics were progressively modified in an uncaring way, which led to a lot of pain and trauma that people are carrying around with them to this day.

It can most certainly be healed. As described in the 9step Process.

However there's a vitally important aspect that sometimes isn't fully processed whilst carrying out this healing. My sense is that this might be happening for you Janhavi.

To truly heal from forgiveness, is to fully honour how we truly felt when this event happened - so clearly there was a lot of pain around how your inlaws treated you. This is not something we can simply forgive and move past from the intellect - otherwise we don't get into deep healing.

We must deeply touch the pain of how the circumstances made us feel. Only then, can we look for the sense of the inviolable One within the pain. You become so as-One with the situation, that you aren't separated from it as some kind of identity.

True empowerment and healing is to become The One in the event, fully allowing and expressing. In this way, healing begins to happen by itself.

So I would encourage you to revisit the situation and how you felt about it. Allow yourself to feel the trauma, but then keep working through it in the ways described in the 9step Process.

Sending love and encouragement

Open <3