careful with company
In reply to What is true non-judgement? by Vimal
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Hi Vimal.
Indeed, there is the constant, internal scan for any tightness or behaviour that may be connected to judgement. The remaining question for me now and of late has been, how does any relation of any sort with my immediate family serve either them or me? This particular visit was convenient because I was in the area for a cultural event. I am at the point where my inclination to serve doesn't necessarily mean connecting with family members, out of a sense of loyalty, obligation or otherwise. In fact, contacts seem to becoming more difficult and derailing. There is, however, a good measure of curiosity and this visit has revealed more about my process and has probably given them things to think about. The visits are becoming increasingly less frequent as that connection is fading to a degree. The issue magnifies the issue of judgement against those that don't seem to be progressed as far along the spiritual path and are clinging to materialism. I recognise nuances of this energy, maybe some residual, subtle programing in myself and attitudes held in the collective consciousness. What appears to be happening in the process, is that unaligned relationships are fading organically and others are coming in. As always, the emphasis is to flow with discernment and never to say never when it comes to spending time with old friends and family. However, I shall hold the awareness that more interference is coming into the field at this time and I might support my journey by choosing my company very carefully.
