I had a psychic attack yesterday that I was aware of for the first time. My youngest daughter has been coming home from school for the last couple of days and throwing really intense tantrums about the littlest things.
Later I was asking her what has been going on, what she is noticing when this happens, and I told her next time to see if she could remember to feel in her body. Not long afterwards I was feeling nauseous and later got this really bad headache. It persisted and I remembered I had seen this article again recently. I was not able to read it until after swim lessons, soccer tryouts, dinner and bedtime so by this time I had been feeling it for over 4 hours! Finally, when the kids went to bed I reread the article and had time to work with several things that you shared. I felt so much going on that I was able to work with and process that I am grateful for the experience.
When reading about cutting the energetic ties I was resistant. I felt it was connected to my daughter and the part where you said "my mother's consciousness might suffer from the removal of the bridge," the energy work I have done that says you naturally have this connection with your kids and an idea that maybe I somehow could help process it and it would help her too (I would choose to suffer rather than her) kept me from doing this part. After sitting with this today I see this is all just my own fear and attachment. I am wondering though wouldn't the cord just reattach between us rather quickly anyway or do both parties have to need something from it? Is it EVER helpful or ok to have an energetic connection to you kids or anyone else?