For me it is this feeling of responsibility that I know is my Karma. This is bringing up a lot for me, so much sadness I can't stop crying. There is this pressure in my head.
Yes holding the space for someone is helpful, leading by example is helpful, but I can't help feeling like I can't help anyone, I am the one sinking in the mud. If I just focus on self realizing myself it may be helpful to another someone but I do not want to feel like I am helping them.