Hi Ella, Inspiring to see you hold your ground calmly, something I aspire to. It almost seems as though that person desperately holds on to the idea that all star beings are benevolent so that she can count on something, like as if it's one place where she won't be hurt. And she tries to protect that notion vehemently because she feels she wouldn't be able to handle any more disappointment. Understanding and I've been there myself. Hopefully you helped open the door a crack. Thanks for the share, Barb