"Learning as you go is better than not going at all" Yes!!! This has been a big key for me recently. I notice that the main difference in those who show up and shine into the world authentically is a willingness to begin with what they have/are/feel now and grow, evolve as they go. It's sounds simple, and I suppose it is.

I love this video Open - so powerful and inspiring.

You said "Grief and loss only persist when you resist the epicentre of their grasp." ...perhaps this is why it feels like it comes in waves...that resistance to going right into the center of it means it eases and then comes back for another round. And yet, until one is ready to surrender into it - to the core of it - the coming and going of it softens the resistance and allows a progressive entrance into it. But wow, I am feeling how this is all there is - just turning into the core of it fully...how powerful just one experience of that is...to realize there's nothing to fear in going right toward it. <3