Hi Vimal,

I have no reflections in regards to which way to go. Only you know that. But I do want to offer you some support and encouragement on your path.

I’ve followed your relationship dilemma through what you have expressed here lately and I just want to commend you on the level of consciousness with which you are approaching your relationship.

In my experience, very few people are willing to see themselves and how their own conditioned patterns and projections are affecting and forming the grounds for their current and future relationships. Chances are (as I have experienced it in my own relationships), if there is even a hint of a feeling that something doesn’t feel entirely right or aligned, and you choose to ignore or override it in favour of all the other things that seem or feel good, it will be that very thing that comes back to bite you in the ass years down the line.

I don’t believe there’s a right or wrong choice if you go into it consciously and don’t suppress the subtle inner signals that speak to you. So keep going, Vimal. Keep feeling, keep listening and examining your own motives. I think you’re doing just great!

Love,

Anastasia