Wow, wow,- the articulation and clarity of this article illuminates what I feel is my key distortion. I've spent long enough chasing role models, father, perfect feminine, loyal family, a rather pointless and frustrating pursuit, loaded with projection and confusion. These pursuits have siphoned so much energy for so long. I totally resonate with the observation that aloneless, to the very core, creates the space for the dynamics to shift. To increasingly feel you don't need a damned thing from anybody or anything is liberating to the point that you can almost revel in being free and unencumbered, whether alone in a field, sat in darkness, or in a social throng. And feeling no reactivity or need for anything from others, theres little for intervention to interfere with. Peace and equanimity reign! Wonderful reflection. 🙏