Thanks for your article. It certainly brings some clarity and understanding to Law of Attraction.

I have a question though. You say that we should allow ourselves to feel the tightness in mirroring circumstances that bring up these feelings. There are situations which I know do make me feel tight, and so I avoid them. A very good example of this is going to parties, pubs and the like. I haven't enjoyed these kinds of situations for many years, probably due to a variety of reasons, so I just avoid them. I'm sure this stems from my darker years earlier in life. There is another very real reason why I don't enjoy such situations. In any noisy environment, I find it very difficult to tune in to a conversation I might be involved in. As a result, I find it very hard to join in and essentially end up feeling rude or get left standing on the sidelines! Also, I do find it hard to join in with converstaions that I really have no interest in! So the result is I feel quite uncomfortable in these situations and, as I say, just avoid them.

I would appreciate your insight. Should I be putting myself into situations I find uncomfortable in order to grow?