Thanks for the article and the video Open. Since coming to Openhand I've really realised how, as you've touched on, surrender and will power are not as polar opposite as they seem, and actually blend together like yin and yang.

Take the will to surrender for example. I find it often takes a little willful spark within me to get that surrender flowing and then the surrendering itself does the rest.
Or conversely, surrendering into will. Allowing what wants to happen, happen even if you're really scared.

Its almost like a little dance going on. It's really easy to see how we define 'female' and 'male' as 'relating' to each other.