This is a powerful exploration Zoe, around relationships. I'm sure that all can identify with your inquiry - I would encourage all to read the exchanges.

Rich, I agree: to create more space for soul to flow. 👍

However, I feel there is an underlying, fundamental point that's being flagged up here - it's coming from the soul, through the spiking words that are expressed. So often, the soul is wanting to speak to us, and uses our own words to do so.

What jumps out strongly (for me) is the word "prioritise" and also "responsibility" (to others). You said Zoe: "I prioritize instead what I see as responsibilities to other people." But the point is, you cannot truly give the other what their soul is calling for, unless you're honouring yours. Otherwise, we risk running around in the same old loops without growth or development for anyone - we simply reinforce the old patterns and behaviours.

My main point is around "priority". In your words, I hear you binding yourself into fixed relationship dynamics, wondering how to balance things, but without first securing the central tenet - which is: right relationship with yourself. Until this becomes the central priority, you won't find right relation with others either.

No, it's not about disappearing off into a retreat centre - although spending time recalibrating and recentering in the self away on retreat is utterly essential. Yes, I agree: engaging in relationships is how we evolve and grow. But if you're not truly centred in yourself first, and endeavouring to come from there, then you'll not find right balance or right relation with others - we create skewed and unfulfilling reality constructs.

In fact, this was really the underlying point of my article: as the Shift now accelerates, there must be a clear orientation with the soul, othwerwise, awakening people may themselves in 'no-man's-land' - not being fulfilled or effective in life, because of being pulled in different directions; not able to benefit from the soul's natural creativity either.

Another point I made, with regards to coming from the soul in daily life, is that you don't have to change everything to begin to come from the soul - not at all. You'll likely be in a landscape that is enfolded with the Matrix, where you have responsibilities, goals and deadlines. But this doesn't stop you coming from the soul in amongst all of that. Yes, you do have to work at it. And crucial to this is deciding what the priority is: is it to be coming from the felt-sense of soul and always being authentic? Or, are you simply suppressing and allowing the soul to be pushed into the background? The latter is to be in 'no-man's-land' - which is not a great or fulfilling place to be!

So, the crucial thing is to decide (which may take a lot of time, trial and error): What is my true priority in life? Bearing in mind, that the love, support and responsibility you offer to others cannot be genuine and authentic if not coming from the soul.

Work each day to tune into the soul. Know what it takes to find it in any given moment. Work to come from there and be authentic.

In this way, you'll find the landscape starts to shift and shape around what you're being - until it becomes the direct reflection of who you really are.

When it comes out, I would suggest picking up the remastered 5GATEWAYS - because it's all about coming into this rightness in regular life.

Much love
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