As we say here at Openhand, at the heart of every distortion is a truth; find the truth and express it, then the distortion peels away.

So what is the truth at the heart of control?

My experience is that it's being able to read the path of Right Action and being a channel for that to happen - being able to manifest the path of the future landing now (Manifesting Miracles with White Magic).

But we must also remember, as the stream flows down the mountain, it may strike many obstacles and have to accommodate many different densities at different twists and turns along the path. So it's course may have to change, even though it's ocean destiny remains unchanged.

So don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Instead, allow creativity to flow. Allow the visions of the future to come in (as long as you're not intentionally manifesting that is). Set the boundaries within interactions if you feel given to.

But always be soft and flexible to the possibility of change. And when you get tight within, work into that tightness.

Apply maximum use of the ray 4: don't compromise your truth, but compromise how you apply it... The ray 4 Diplomat

And remember, if you lose it, as you inevitably will from time to time, don't fluster, don't flap. Let yourself become calm again as quickly as possible, then simply hook up to the flow again. Certainly don't dwell on errors beyond having learnt from them.

The control will unravel itself, you'll keep flowing to the ocean. And all will be well!

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