David Bowie was my daughter's favourite artist/musician growing up, so she was stunned and saddened to learn yesterday of his complex past from social activist friends, as I was. In the 1970's, Bowie had a sexual relationship with a 14-year-old "child groupie" who says she consented; however, she was still underage. He was also accused of sexual assault in the 1980's although he was cleared by a jury. There are lots of blogs being circulated about Bowie's imperfect past, some thoughtfully written in the spirit of love and compassion. Here's one such blog that my daughter circulated on Facebook by activist social worker, Aida Mandulay, that certainly tones down the celebrity worship. In Aida's words:

"We should not simply dismiss David Bowie’s artistic legacy and the impact he had on many AND we should not dismiss the allegations of rape and the realities of how he had sex with a 14/15-year old when he was a powerful and revered adult."

For those interested in reading Aida's full comments, here's the link.

http://aidamanduley.com/2016/01/12/david-bowie-time-to-mourn-or-call-ou…

Given the widespread acceptance of the rape culture we live in where many are not held accountable for their actions, I feel it's important to add this perspective to the conversation.

Here's to self-expression with respect, love, and compassion for others.

Keeping it real,

x Catherine