Hi Mark, thanks for joining us. You said...

"I had not realised my current house still held links to my previous relationship"

Yes indeed, because it's all energy! And so as you pull away, you pull away on those threads that connect inside. Then it's all about working through what arises emotionally. Wishing you well with that *give_rose* Greetings Megha - just checking in that you're not seeing your Twin Flame as someone in the physical? Because you're Twin Flame is the other aspect of yourself that isn't in incarnation. However the Twin Flame will manifest as reflections in your outer world. Maybe there's a little confusion - it's easily done! Hi Ann - awesome to have you on board too 3. You said...

" I realize I was ok with how things were so I was able to open up the space and create change. I am excited about those changes but it also makes me realize that the more I want something to change, the harder it is for me to be totally ok with how it is now in an authentic way. I think I am but it is really just to manipulate the outcome."

Yes, it's a paradox: to be awesomely okay with the way things are, and yet to yearn for change too. There are some key things to watch for. So being awesomely okay is about opening the space through the circumstance, yes. But then allowing the yearning for change, without needing a particular outcome. Focus on the feeling of change, but watch where your consciousness gets tight and closes down. You may feel a constriction - work to open this up, but without losing the yearning. Keep holding the feeling of change when it comes up, then watch how things shift. Finally, at some point, a clear choice of the next step will reveal itself, which you must step into. And remember, if it looks like a really big step, too big to take in one leap, then see how it breaks down into smaller ones - something practical you can change right now. :wink: Erica you said...

"I wanted to comment on the twin flame experience, like a fire it's free to dance , move, transform, ignite. In my experience, it's in everything, everywhere.. Omnipotent, Omnipresent.!There was a period of time where I attempted to contain it within a certain person or experience yet what happens when a fire is contained? Eventually it is suffocated. It's there within the freedom to be dancing through this realm as am I"

Beautiful, wonderful, magical, yes! It's exactly how I experience it too. *OK* Hi M - you talk about "fake synchronicities"...

"I feel like I’m dealing with a very nimble, but limited predator. Fake synchronicities are another interesting phenomena and I must admit to falling for them once in a while. They’d always appeal to my wishful thinking and are created from a limited pool of possibilities. Most importantly, if I fall for them, the buzz turns on. The real synchronicities contain an element of creativity and a bit of a surprise, the fake ones don’t."

Yes indeed. OC can mimic synchronicity and make you feel like you're heading in an aligned direction, making aligned choices. My observation of this is that these fake synchronicities are more clunky than the real thing. They'll tell you to do something "go here now", or to get something. And you get confirmations of the same thing in much the same way several times over a period of days. Whereas authentic synchronicity is much more spontaneous, happens in the moment, and tells you more about how to be more authentically you. Or else it helps you see distortion to unravel it; it will reveal "Right Action" too, but only as the result of this self-realisation process and the unwinding of ego. Essentially, as you're doing, always watch how it makes you feel: does it expand you or close you down? Blessings to all Open :-)