These are all great and important questions Elaine. How does 'mirroring' essentially work? We draw everything to ourselves by the Law of Attraction (see Law of Attraction (unveiled). Our configuration of consciousness is just like a magnet - whatever we hold on the inside, draws the reflection on the outside. This is true both for our aligned consciousness (when we're being authentic and in the soul) aswell as for our distorted consciousness (when you're in the false self).

It's vitally important to first realise therefore, that nothing is ever done to you - we each create, and draw, everything that we experience. And what's the purpose? - integration and infusion of soul - essentially evolutionary growth.

So by understanding that we create the moment so as to invite greater integration and infusion of soul points the way to understanding how mirrors work. A mirror or a mirroring situation will kick off some inner tightness - where we might go unconscious and react to the moment from some kind of fixed judgment about it; or else some resistance to how the moment truly wants to flow. When most people in society feel this tightness, the immediate reaction is often a prescribed conditioned reflex. The typical approach of society is then to try to fix the situation because there's a perception its broken in some way:

- You lose your job, so instead of dealing with the attached pain, you try to fix it by finding another - You have a bust up in your relationship over something, so without fully exploring why you created that, there's a trying to fix it to make it better.

What's necessary in any of these kinds of circumstances, is to explore how they make you feel on the inside. These 'hot' touch points are where the soul is getting stuck in the density and identifying with the illusion of reality. This tightness could be on the emotional plane, the physical, mental or karmic (in the 4D field). When you ask "show me!", the universe will help to explore where it is your soul is getting stuck - for what reason. Where is the attachment or resistance (to the situation going a particular way). I often find it useful to ask "what's the worst fear you might have about a particular situation?" For example that my relationship might end. Then feel into the reactive tightness to that - express it outwards and become as-one with the pain of it. Then you start to become The One in the pain. The attachment dissolves, the fragment of soul integrates, and now we're in a place to make more aligned choices in life. I know this is quite a shift in terms of perception of how we truly create the moment and how to align with this movement - this flow. It's described in detail in the book 5GATEWAYS under the Gateway 2 "Realignment" section... 5GATEWAYS Book Namaste Open *OK*