Thank you, Cathy, for your reply. I haven't yet watched the video you shared but plan to do so right after I finish this message to you. I felt the depth of your words in your message, especially about "accepting how we feel without judgement or blame or need for an outcome". I find I can accept how I feel without judgement or blame, but the "outcome" part is something I need to work on. I will begin to work through the nine step process. I feel the love you send through this message and I truly appreciate you for it. Again, Thank YOU!

Lindi