Hi B - Thanks for sharing the ways in which you resonate with what I shared. I love the title of your post - how true that we accepted the jail we were offered and we break it down.

From what you share it sounds like expressing boundaries has been challenging - I totally get that and it has been a major part of my journey. I too have felt nauseous as I reflected on all that I had allowed when a huge screaming NO was erupting from within. What I feel now is both an acceptance of "where/how" I am with all the places I get stuck too- and also a fiery passionate will to let all that doesn't serve me burn in the deep cauldron within. =) I feel strongly that the Soul is guiding the journey and though I resist in places, I know the Universe will keep reflecting to me what is going on in me and I will get it and move through it.

I could be totally wrong here, but from your sharing I feel some sense of inner blame for where you have not listened to your Soul. I find it important to be honest with myself and take responsibility about what is going on within me, where I get stuck...and it's also so important to have compassion for myself - I may have accepted realities that were out of alignment - but they were exactly what I needed to create to realize I had aspects of myself lost in a particular dynamic. Maybe that resonates, maybe it doesn't but I felt to add it, so just let it fly by if it doesn't land with you =).

With love,
Jen