11/10/2022 Journal Update

This is indeed a rich and colourful thread that's developing - thanks so much to all for your insightful reflections and sharings 👍. I felt the importance of looking at a deeper level of sophistication with the Black Snake energy, especially in relationships...

To start to untangle the Gordian knot of automated behaviours between people based on repetitive reactivity, it's necessary as we expressed yesterday, to "call out" the energy: how another might be projecting onto you their version of reality for example. The Black Snake energy, lurking in the oppressor's psyche, builds itself up by having awareness of a truth - especially a spiritual truth - such as "you're being defensive" for example. Now, in the oppressor's pysche, everything the other partner has founded their reality upon must be false, because "ego is defending itself". In this case, the calling out takes on a deeper, and then more sinister shadow. This is what can lead to psychosis in the other - they don't know their own truth anymore. Paranoia is a classic symptom of such an entanglement.

Of course, neither is such a dynamic of any value to the oppressor, even if they tend to get their own way a lot of the time. If it comes at a cost to the other, then this is always a cost to yourself anyway - are you the singular source of truth? Does it serve to carry the burden of truth for the other? You can easily get weighed down by the perceived responsibility.

What to do when things reach this stage?

The Ray 4 Diplomat: agreeing to disagree

This is where the Ray 4 diplomat of the soul must come to the fore. We have to master the art of agreeing to disagree - let me explain.

Maybe the perceived victim in the dynamic is protesting that: "you're always doing this, or that, I never get my way". In the oppressor, you can clearly see that the other's point of view is coming from emotion, and founded on an inaccurate truth. Nevertheless, it is THEIR TRUTH, and must be honoured and respected. Because ultimately, in the relativistic universe, EVERY reality construct is based on distortion. No matter how accurate you might be, there's always a higher degree of accuracy. So the key is to recognise this, let it humble you, and allow the other to express their own truth. But crucially, WITHOUT correcting them. Even if you can clearly see the distortion. Otherwise, the Black Snake energy still has fertile ground to subsist, both in their psyche, and yours!

The progressive approach of calling out the general dynamic and then extracting yourself from the reactivity, followed by allowing the other to fully express their truth, starts to diminish the Black Snake's grasp. This is a difficult one to master - when you let the other fully express their truth, there's need for patience and also not getting pulled in. If they judge or project, just allow them the space - then they feel heard. It doesn't mean you have to agree. In fact, by not even responding to the judgment, is often sufficient to negate the procession of the energy into the space. It's a win win. The other expresses what they feel - but that doesn't necessarily contaminate the space with that energy. The Black Snake has nowhere to go.

You might ask, "how does anything agreed upon or done" in this situation?

This is where infinite patience is necessary. Each expresses their truth without making the other wrong. But allowing the Ray 4 to naturally work its magic. If your truth is still true for you, hold the position lightly, allowing for the possibility it may change - no one is ever absolutely correct in these dynamics. Hold your position lightly, let the other do the same, and "agree to disagree". Make that clear. Thus, both parties are respected and honoured. Now the Ray 4 will work its magic - the entity dislodges, because there's less and less fractional energy to sustain it - and then you'll likely notice a significant shift in either or both parties. A way forwards materialises out of the ether.

This approach also becomes a way of integrating the Black Snake entity back into the universal fold, into the Torus - it is seen and respected. It's truth honoured. You didn't make it "wrong". Forgiving it (a classic spiritual distortion!) is exactly to make it wrong. It doesn't want or need forgiveness. As far as it is concerned, it was acting in the best way possible, given difficult circumstances. The contraction within it, of being "judged by God", eases and releases. It can be met, empathised with, realigned and then redirected.

I offer this viewpoint forwards today for significant contemplation.
This is highly advanced and sophisticated work.
I commend you all. for illuminating it.

Bright blessings

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