Hi! I am curious about Openhand's approach with regard to boundaries. I have been operating under a belief that boundaries just enhance the idea of separation. However, this is being shown to me over and over again to be only partially true. It seems to me that though in an absolute sense there is no boundary, in a relative sense perhaps one needs to develop and discern a level of healthy boundaries - on a physical, emotional, mental, energetic level. It seems that one would benefit from a helathy sense of relative self rather than trapped in an idea of what the absolute Self might behave - another level of escape from the relative. Once one is resting in the absolute in a permanent way are boundaries still experienced on a relative level? Or perhaps one does not attract those with out of balance boundaries once one is without internal limitation?
I have recently been attracting many people who seem to tie me down by continuously talking without break and telling me all of their personal story. I see that I need to develop better boundaries and also look at where I may be doing the same to others or how I am allowing this to occur as well.
Thanks for any clarification!!